tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post9021553574979945602..comments2023-10-08T21:27:50.662+11:00Comments on Plumbing the Deeps: Day 3 (Thursday) - Doing the side-step shuffleJuliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00647929951322724618noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post-70974558525464656722011-08-05T23:06:01.431+10:002011-08-05T23:06:01.431+10:00Thank you. All your encouragement helps. It doesn&...Thank you. All your encouragement helps. It doesn't alter me, of course, but does help me to change gear when going up a hill.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09513648613788716017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post-44507389174715252772011-08-05T09:51:53.639+10:002011-08-05T09:51:53.639+10:00Goodness woman, don't be so hard on yourself. ...Goodness woman, don't be so hard on yourself. You must be exhausted. You are worried about Kirsten, helping with Alannah and trying to do god knows how many other things. Give yourself a break. As someone said the other day - don't forget to look after yourself as well. Its slowly, slowly, day by day but it will happen.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03182743312553270315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post-88762778801252323832011-08-05T08:06:02.512+10:002011-08-05T08:06:02.512+10:00Less kicking and geeing up and
more gentleness wi...Less kicking and geeing up and <br />more gentleness with yourself.<br /><br />db and bc are spot on - they are giving you good advice, you hard-headed woman.<br />Hard heads crack!freefallinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08863000229609701796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post-68064102955184526452011-08-05T04:42:33.558+10:002011-08-05T04:42:33.558+10:00When you're feeling swamped by all of this, Ju...When you're feeling swamped by all of this, Julie, do exactly what you have done here, spit it out. Don't hold in the fear and the anger and the pain. Find the right audience (we're the right audience) and get it out of your head and your heart where it is banging around so fiercely. The walks, also, will help. But nothing is going to get any of you through this but TIME. So hang in there, because time will do all sorts of mad, crazy stuff as you slog your way through it.brattcathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10382428477056833533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8550214407269277609.post-76293552360242503852011-08-04T22:55:48.464+10:002011-08-04T22:55:48.464+10:00My heart goes out to you. You are doing so well an...My heart goes out to you. You are doing so well and you don't need any arse kicking. You are doing so well, even though you have been warned of what to expect it doesn't mean you can't have natural feelings of fear and horror of it all. It is about you, Darren and Allanah as well as the patient. You are all affected and you all need help to get through it. Yeats and a good morning walk is a good start and stop beating yourself up about how you feel. Take care. Hope her face doesn't get any worse.diane bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12002292118984909883noreply@blogger.com